To continue on a path of opening our heart to self-love, let us remember to not be distracted by an unbalanced need for external approval. We must show ourselves unwavering love and respect. We must learn to appreciate ourselves regardless of what others think. Look to be your own anchor in the wind. If you tie your happiness to the shifting currents of other’s perceptions and goals, you will be blown off course, unable to chart your own happiness. Listen to what the critics say; and, if you determine changes are needed, make them. But, don’t allow yourself to be dragged down into despair and self-hatred. Treat yourself as you treat others. Be kind and gentle. Recall what Jesus said: Love thy neighbor as thyself. Self-love is always the way. This is the path to personal peace.